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				<description><![CDATA[After my divorce, I remember scouring the Catechism for information regarding dating and relationships. Frankly, I was looking for a loophole that would allow me to pursue intimate relationships. I rationalized that since I was divorced, there must be certain exemptions for me. I wanted to date again, and I wanted to be intimate. After [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>After my divorce, I remember scouring the Catechism for information regarding dating and relationships.</b> Frankly, I was looking for a loophole that would allow me to pursue intimate relationships. I rationalized that since I was divorced, there must be certain exemptions for me. I wanted to date again, and I wanted to be intimate. After all, I was now &#8220;single&#8221; and everyone was telling me this was my ticket to happiness and fulfillment. To my dismay, I didn&#8217;t find any loopholes. Instead, I found passages regarding chastity. My reaction was one of disbelief. I recall thinking: &#8220;Who is the Church kidding? They are so out of touch with the world today. Chastity is such a medieval concept.&#8221; I discarded it and went on my merry way.</p>
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<p>After a year of heading down my unchaste path, I realized that it brought me just the opposite of what I expected: emptiness and regret. At this point, I knew I had to make a change in my life&#8211;and did I ever! After much soul-searching, I decided to live my faith fully and I committed to a chaste life. It was a huge decision that I was very scared to make. Thank God I did. It was the best decision I ever made. Not only did I gain a tremendous sense of peace in my life, but that one decision made every decision after that align my life closer and closer with God&#8217;s will. God&#8217;s abundant blessings began to pour into my life. Years later as I reflect back on that difficult decision, I am blown away by God&#8217;s incredible plan for me. One I would have totally missed if I continued to follow my plan. Choosing to live my faith was the difference that made all the difference.</p>
<p><em>Chastity includes an apprenticeship in self-mastery which is a training in human freedom. The alternative is clear: either man governs his passions and finds peace, or he lets himself be dominated by them and becomes unhappy. &#8211; </em>Catechism of the Catholic Church 2339</p>
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<p id="rop"><small>Originally posted 2014-10-08 06:00:34. </small></p><span class="et_social_bottom_trigger"></span>]]></content:encoded>
			

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