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		<title>Precious and Good</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2026 16:12:32 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[I go on a three-day, silent retreat each year. It is a very intense spiritual time, filled with much prayer and reflection. It never fails to refresh and renew my spirit and draw me closer to our amazing God. On one particular retreat, most of my thoughts and inspirations were centered on my children; it [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I go on a three-day, silent retreat each year.</strong> It is a very intense spiritual time, filled with much prayer and reflection. It never fails to refresh and renew my spirit and draw me closer to our amazing God. On one particular retreat, most of my thoughts and inspirations were centered on my children; it seemed to be the “theme” of my retreat. I was filled with deep gratitude for the incredible gifts they are to me, and I realized how much God must love me for entrusting them to me. I felt very blessed, and I wondered what I ever did to be worthy of them.</p>
<p>As I prayed in thanksgiving for my children, I couldn’t shake a recurring thought. I keep hearing, “precious and good, precious and good,” over and over in my mind. It was as if God put words to the feeling I carried in my heart for my children.</p>
<p>We are all God’s children. While I took the inspiration of “precious and good” as God’s reminder to me of my children, it was also His reminder of how He feels about His children—you and me. He does not focus on our sins and shortcomings. In His sight we are all “precious and good.” Remind yourself of that the next time you are feeling particularly shameful for some sin, or unloved by others. To God, you are always precious and good!</p>
<p><em>“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;</em><br />
<em>I have called you by name: you are mine.</em><br />
<em>When you pass through waters, I will be with you;</em><br />
<em>through rivers, you shall not be swept away.</em><br />
<em>When you walk through fire, you shall not be burned,</em><br />
<em>nor will flames consume you.&#8221;</em> &#8211; Isaiah 43:1-2</p>
<p id="rop"><small>Originally posted 2014-12-01 06:00:18. </small></p>]]></content:encoded>
			

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		<title>Radiant with Joy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2025 13:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I still can&#8217;t bring myself to tell people I am divorced.&#8221; Linda shared with her Recovering from Divorce group. She had been divorced for over three years, and the shame of being divorced and Catholic still held her hostage. This is very common. I must admit that it has been over thirteen years since my [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>&#8220;I still can&#8217;t bring myself to tell people I am divorced.&#8221;</strong> Linda shared with her Recovering from Divorce group. She had been divorced for over three years, and the shame of being divorced and Catholic still held her hostage. This is very common. I must admit that it has been over thirteen years since my divorce and it is not something that I share with pride. If you struggle with the shame of divorce, you are not alone.</p>
<p>When Jesus walked the earth, he went out of his way to embrace those that felt outcast by society. He sought them out. They were HIS people. He defended them, he cured them, and he loved them. He turned their shame into joy. Well, you are HIS people, too. Don&#8217;t ever forget that. So, the next time you are feeling the shame of your divorce, remember that Jesus sees past your circumstances and into your heart. He longs to remove whatever regret He finds there. To Him, you are his greatest treasure. Allow Him to wipe away any stain from your past so that you may become radiant with His joy!</p>
<p><em>Look to him that you may be radiant with joy, and your faces may not blush with shame. When the poor one called out, the LORD heard, and from all his distress he saved him.</em> Psalm 34:6-7</p>
<p id="rop"><small>Originally posted 2014-06-09 06:00:10. </small></p>]]></content:encoded>
			

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